Raising children can be challenging. Wouldn't you agree?

As parents, we always want the best for our kids. We want them to do well in school, excel in things that they love, and ultimately live meaningful and purposeful lives.

But as much as we teach them, children don't always do what we expect them to. They may go about doing things their own way. And when they grow into young adults, they sometimes lose their way a little. As parents, what do we do?

In today's readings, we see that God loved us so much, that he sent his only Son. That anyone who believes in Him, will be saved. Yet why then do we avoid the light of Christ?

Much like our children, we can sometimes lose our way. And even if we realise it, we navel-gaze and become too preoccupied with our shortcomings that we forget the infinite mercy of God who calls us to a life of freedom and joy.

Let us then shift our perspective to see that ours and our children's shortcomings can pave the way towards greater intimacy with God. For the Lord does not delight in sacrifices but a contrite heart (Psalm 51:16-17). Even in the weaknesses and failures, we are God’s work of art.

So coming back to the question, what can we do as parents? While wanting the best for our children is good, we must first raise them to love Christ with all their hearts. And if they do go astray, never lose faith. Put your trust in Christ, and always keep them in prayer.

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